Alan Weiss, in his well stated newsletter " Balancing Act" discusses a reaction to whiners. In essence, Alan walks away from these types. That got me to thinking about whiners, their impact on an organization, and leadership.
Whiners are " the sky is falling types". Life is always just not quite right. The soup is cold, her hair style is yuck, our bosses never understand us... you get the picture. The message is ..I don't like my life, and everyone and everything conspires to make me more miserable every day.. Bah Humbug.
So as a leader, what are your options? The 1st is not to hire these grouchy types in the 1st place. The interviewing technique here is to engage the candidate in an in depth conversation to probe and understand their attitudes about life, work, and themselves. Amazing what people will reveal if you give them time and space.
Secondly, I concur with Alan that walking away is an excellent 1st step. Whiners are seeking attention. The loss of recognition will motivate the perceptive types to look in the mirror and unilaterally change their behavior.
Ultimately, whiners become a carcinoma to the organization. If they are non responsive to coaching it may be necessary to exit them from the bus. Whiners will infect and destroy morale.

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